Goodnight Littles & Sirs.
Posting lots of kitten stuff for that anon tonight, just because I think she might need it.
This is my favorite pet play picture. He’s taking such good care of her and you can tell how much he loves her. She’s got a wonderfully fluffy tail and ears and looks like such a wonderful kitten.
This is what pet play is all about.
Anonymous said: The babygirl who wrote that response to that ask about tails is yours right? She's really really smart. I need a friend like her.
You are correct.
I am so very fortunate to have been chosen by her.
So very lucky to be able to call her MINE.
She would very much appreciate a message like this, and she and I both are more than open to educating and supporting Doms and Subs in whatever ways we can so that they may find the rewarding and fulfilling relationships that they want and deserve, in a safe and mutually supportive environment.
Send her a message. Don’t be afraid to go off anon either.
Anonymous said: Does your little get jealous easily? Would she be opens to sharing you?
I give her no reasons to be jealous, so the answer to the first question is No.
She would not be ‘opens’ to sharing me.
She licked me…so by playground rules…I’m hers.
Anonymous said: So it took me three months of being scared before I told my boyfriend I wanted a tail... At first he was really understanding about it and good, saying maybe I should start with something small and woke up. And I agreed. But then for no reason he started making fun of me about it and made me feel disgusting and awful. He's being super nasty and I hate it. Normally he's a wonderful master. But now I feel like I can't trust him. What should I do?
Everything about this makes me both incredibly sad and terribly angry.
First of all, I want to give you the biggest hugs in the world for being so brave. I…I know how hard it is to talk about kinks, especially ones that involve pet play. I know it can be scary and overwhelming and a little embarrassing. You are so very brave.
At the same time, as a submissive/little/babygirl, you have a right to not be scared, overwhelmed, or embarrassed about it. You have a right to be supported, loved, and respected for your kinks and desires. You are beautiful and your kinks are beautiful too.
I know how exciting it is to want a tail and want to be a little kitten. And I am so incredibly angry that this is what happened when you told your master. I know you may not want to hear what I have to say but I also know that you came to us for help and guidance, which is what I have to give you.
You are right to not trust him. You are right to be angry or upset with him. And at this point, you have a right to break up with him over this. Let me explain why:
You opened yourself up to him. You were brave enough to share a very very important and secret part of you. And he not only took advantage of that, he also hurt you with it. He does not deserve your respect anymore. He doesn’t deserve YOU.
You need someone who will not only listen to your kinks but also welcome them and want to help you with them. When…when you told your Sir about your tail, he should have pulled you into his lap, held you tight, and let you tell him everything that made you excited about it. He should have helped you pick out a tail and ears and maybe a leash too. He should have helped you find a small plug, and then a bigger one, and so on, until you could take your tail comfortably. He should have helped you and made you feel so safe and loved and supported throughout the whole process.
Instead, he hurt you. And that is something that is so very unforgivable. You deserve a master who will love every single part of you. You deserve a master who will love his little kitten with all his heart. And you do not have that.
You are worth so much and he does not appreciate it at all. You deserve so much better. You deserve a master who is one hundred times the man he is.
I…I know this may not have been what you wanted to hear. And I’m only one person. But as a submissive who is lucky enough to have a Sir that has welcomed my tail and has helped me to become the happiest little kitten in the world, I am begging you to strongly consider leaving him and finding someone who is so much better for you. Find someone who will let you be the little kitten you want to be. Who will help you learn and grow and who will care for you like you deserve to be cared for. Someone who will not abuse your trust that you place in him, and someone who will not shame you for your kinks.
If you need anything else, I’m right here. Please…please keep me updated. And please let me know if you need any more help.
The biggest of hugs,
Anonymous said: What if your sub wants to be shared?
What if my sub did not want to be shared?
Such a question as you have posed would lead me to believe that your perception of my answer is that it is solely sourced in my own self interest, without taking into consideration what she might like for herself, and her opinion as to what might be best for us in our relationship.
To clarify, and to inform you, her wishes were taken into consideration, and expressed, in alignment with mine, and shared with you in your previous ask.
While I am in a position of ownership of her submission and of her, if you have followed my blog for a while, and understand my beliefs on the makeup of D/s relationships, you would know that I see more equality in roles than perhaps more ‘mainstream’ Doms.
And now that you understand these things, which I apologize for not clarifying earlier, you can now see as to how I already answered your question in the original Q&A around this subject.
Have I omitted anything?
Babygrlxx.tumblr.com has submitted this beautiful photo via email.
She is relatively new to Tumblr, and is beginning to explore her submissive kinks and interests, and would be a very good little girl, were there to be anyone interested in assisting her growth in the role of teacher, trainer, or perhaps even a Dom.
Go say hello and tell her this gentleman sent you.
(Disclaimer: Always be safe and vigilant when engaging and embarking upon conversations/relationships entailing: teaching, training, or D/s agreements. There are ‘real’ and ‘fake’ ‘Doms’ and ‘Subs’ out there. Be smart enough to know the difference. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.)